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An ongoing program of monthly support, group mentorship, connection, and guidance.

with Deonesea La Fey

Integrity.  Depth.  Experience. can join any time... Only $19/month.

Why the membership model?

Because reclaiming sovereign sexuality  is a JOURNEY.  For most of us it spans decades, and really never ends.  It requires trustworthy companionship and lifelong dedication.  Isolating from support is a dangerous habit that traps too many of us.


The membership offers:

  • Experienced, ongoing companionship and guidance.

  • Access to a consistent current of awareness, inspiration and a community of strength.

  • Rhythmic holding - a trustworthy source of deep feminine wisdom that you can rest into.  

  • Deep validation of your truths and honest accountability around your highest intentions for yourself.  

  • A safe space that uplifts you (women) without diminishing men or anyone else for that matter. 

  • An invitation into personal power that keeps you strong without hardening your heart

  • Pathways into deeper connection with yourself and with anyone you choose to share your intimate life with.

  • Deep feminine wisdom practices that deepen and support other healing modalities (somatic and talk therapies) and spiritual paths

WE ARE DEALING WITH COLLECTIVE AND REPETITIVE AMNESIA.  It's an understandable result of inherited trauma, violation, or just the general cultural invalidation of deep feminine sacred needs, the innate wisdom of womanhood, and the tender power of female sexuality.  

​If you are feeling the call to step more deeply into sovereign sexuality, you're officially fighting the current, a brave warrior of the edge. We welcome you to join us, to nourish your heart and fortify your soul in this amazing movement of consolidated power and love.

Who is this for?

The Sovereign Sexuality membership is for any woman who feels the call, or the need, to reclaim her sexuality as her own, and who desires ongoing, trustworthy, and experienced support for that journey.  Whether you're in an intimate relationship or not, recovering from a history of painful intimacies, sorting out a current one, wanting to deepen into an intimacy that is finally meeting you, or wanting to fully rock a juicy solo journey, sovereign sexuality is at the core of deep feminine availability to the fullness of LIFE.

No matter where you think you are on the path, just beginning or decades along.  

Women of all ages, races, sexual orientations, religious backgrounds, and walks of life - we walk together. 

What do you even mean by Sovereign Sexuality?

Sovereign sexuality essentially refers to sexuality as a source of personal power, wisdom, pleasure, and love, rather than confusion and pain.  What that looks like will be unique to each of us, and will change throughout our lives, but it is characterized by:

  • Authenticity

  • Discernment

  • Embodiment

  • A deepened capacity for true, healthy intimacies, with both yourself and your chosen partners

  • An awareness that "sexuality" is a full spectrum experience that touches all aspects of life - the erotic, the emotional, and the spiritual

  • The ability to shift lifelong patterns of relationship neglect, betrayal, shame, violation or distrust of sexuality

  • Deep joy and gratitude for the gift it is to be a woman, powerful AND vulnerable

How does the membership work?

You will receive access to live group coaching calls every other week, alternating with every other week support videos. The group coaching calls will each offer a short practice related to sovereign sexuality and will be centered on a specific topic. You will have the opportunity to interact on a live video call to ask questions and receive coaching in a group context, where you can benefit from the coaching other women receive as well. The group coaching calls are recorded so you can still access them if you can't make it live. Additionally, you will have ongoing opportunity to interact with this supportive group of women in our active Facebook group.

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This program is can join at any time!

Examples of Topics:

  • Cultivating your relationship with your sexual current

  • Loving your pleasure, claiming your power

  • Developing your discernment

  • Knowing your yes and your no

  • Knowing your standards, showing your worth

  • Choosing character over chemistry

  • Riding your growth edge vs violating your own needs

  • Fantasy vs. potential

  • Clearing past lovers, letting more in 

  • Authentic intimacy

  • Myths and realities of the soulmate

  • Sexual fulfillment with or without a partner who can meet you

  • Trauma bonding and attachment styles

  • Pleasure archetypes 

  • Learning to express desires via invitation rather than demand

  • And so much more.......


About your guide:


Deonesea is a sexuality and intimacy coach who is deeply trained and experienced in sensuality and embodiment practices, ecstatic dance forms, and initiatory rites. Deonesea supports women to release themselves from past experiences and conditioning that inhibits their eroticism, so that they can find their own personal pathways to ecstasy.  Her work is based in the knowing that our sensuality and sexuality can be a powerful source of creativity, passion and joy when we allow ourselves to cultivate and embrace them.  

As your guide and companion on this journey, Deonesea has extensive experience in the realm of deep feminine sexuality and intimacy teachings, and all of her work is trauma-informed.  Beyond her decades of experience coaching, teaching, and mentoring women, she has also recovered from:

  • Long term childhood sexual abuse

  • Long term relationships with alcoholics and drug addicts

  • Habitual deficits due to financial, emotional, and spiritual co-dependency

  • Narcissistic trauma bonding, psychological manipulation, gas lighting 

  • Sexual betrayal by spiritual teachers and trusted mentors

This program is based on the work of Jumana Sophia, and was developed in partnership with coaches Deonesea La Fey and Jasmine Patten.  It was born out of their experiences working with hundreds of women, all over the world.  It is clear that one session, one book, or one course can be life-changing, but the terrain of life itself changes EVERY DAY when you choose a path of healing, authenticity, power, and pleasure as a woman.  


Begins March 1st

Sovereign Sexuality Self-Study

Teaching and Practice Bundles

Supplement the membership with a library of incredible content that you can  explore at your own pace, according to your personal needs. 


Three curated bundles of teachings, webinars, and guided practices, focusing on HEALING, PERSONAL POWER, and PLEASURE.

with Jumana Sophia, Deonesea La Fey, and Jasmine Patten

A treasure house of content archived from the first year of the membership

(February 2020-February 2021) 

*Available individually or as a discounted complete series.  

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