Stop Chasing Men,

Start Receiving Them

Turning What You Are Wanting Into What You Are Getting

with Deonesea La Fey



There are so many kinds of ways in which we as women chase men…the ones we’re in relationships with, the ones we wish were in relationship with, and even the mythic “One.”  


This is the reverse dynamic of what’s needed for you to have the man in your life be adoring of you.  But unless you’ve been taught how to sit back and relax into your feminine power and enjoy him pursuing you, then you are very likely chasing him in all kinds of ways both overt and subtle.  And that sets up a dynamic in which you are adoring him rather than him adoring you, resulting in him being complacent and you being frustrated.


This class is based on the premise that what you really want from a man is for him to honor and adore and cherish you, and that for you to have that you are going to need to make an internal shift towards receiving a man in a way that empowers him to give you those things.  


In a very real way, this is about turning what you are wanting into what you are getting.


This process is about reversing the polarity so that you put yourself into the feminine polarity rather than keeping yourself in the masculine polarity.  When you sit in the deep residence of your authentic feminine, your nature requires his masculinity…so that the result is he is actively adoring you, instead of you actively adoring him.  And then you are no longer entangled in power dynamics.


Stop Chasing Men, Start Receiving Them is a three class series that will move you into a depth of understanding of the most effective ways to understand and relate with men, so that you can start truly enjoying them.



In this class we’ll be discussing what you’re wanting from him – a past, current, or future guy – and why it is that you’re not getting that (hint: it’s because you’re trying to get it).  We’ll discuss practices you can use to shift all of that yearning into an internal state of magnetism.  These practices will unblock places in you, so that what you want from him can naturally flow from him to you.



This class is all about how he is different than you are at a very fundamental level…the brain.  When you learn the way a man’s brain works, you place yourself in the category of being a rare gem among women…one who truly understands men.  Men are hungry for a woman like that.  The processes that go on in his mind around sex and love and relating are very different than what most women think they are.  This information is dating and relationship gold.  



In this last class of the series, we’ll be talking about flirting and the art of seduction.  In many ways, these things became lost arts during the feminist revolution of the past fifty years…for all of the reasons that was necessary in those times.  But for you to have the kind of cherishing that you want, you need these arts to be reclaimed as part of your femininity.  Flirting and seduction are what create desire and anticipation, and desire and anticipation are what create amazing sex.  A man wants that with a woman.  You want that, too, right?


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