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Sacred Needs and Your

Sexual Archetype

Your sacred needs won't rest until they're met.

Welcome to the Sacred Needs course!  This is your home page for the course, so please read over everything before you begin.  The course is in four parts, and you'll navigate from here to each of those parts.  It's ideal to do the course in order, but each aspect does also stand alone.

The four parts of the course are:

  • Self Inquiry Quiz (Discover Your Sexual Archetype)

  • Ebook - Gifts, Challenges and Keys to Thriving within the Sexual Archetypes 

  • Video Discussion

  • Integration and Application

Let's Begin....


You will be exploring your sacred needs using six archetypes of female sexuality as a starting place.  To begin, please take the self-inquiry quiz - "What Kind of Lover Are You?"

You'll notice that many of the answers will resonate with you.  This is because we all embody all of these archetypes, in different measure and in different relationships.  It is helpful though to get a sense of where your primary archetype is.  At the end of the quiz you'll receive an in-depth write up of the gifts, challenges, and keys to thriving in your archetype.  The ebook then will provide you with deeper explorations of all six archetypes.  


Now you get to explore ALL of the archetypes in depth, and to begin a reclamation of the sacred needs that are true for you.  

Archetypal sexuality and sacred need are deeply related.  When you touch your authentic expression of the female sexual current, you will begin to understand the deeper needs, the sacred needs, that are most true for you.  When they are met, you can open to more of what you truly are. You can soften and surrender into the power and love that want to move through you, the kind of connection and relationship that your heart longs for.


And when you claim your sacred needs instead of living in conflict or denial of them, you will be far more equipped to not only have them met, but to communicate them in ways that they can be met. 


Now that you've explored the archetypes and the concept of sacred needs, let's take it further.  In this video, I'll take the archetypes one at a time, looking at three things:

  • What is the core sacred need of the archetype?

  • How can you communicate that need to a partner in a way that it can truly be met?

  • How can you care for yourself when that need is neglected, unmet, or denied?  (With or without a current partner)


Integration is where you bring it all home.  I have created two options for integration, and my recommendation is that you work with both.  The first is a series of journaling prompts.  Bringing your understandings into the written word is a powerful way to make them true to you, to anchor them, and reflect more deeply.

The second integration piece is a guided practice into a very simple state of listening to, tending, and honoring your heart.  Guided practices are unparalleled ways to soften, surrender, and be led into a much greater level of self-intimacy.  


As you move on from the course and shift your life into greater levels of sacred regard for your sexual rightness and fullness, I encourage you to gather the three most significant gems for you and somehow bring them into your life.  Little post it notes, items on your altar, or even just flowers by your bed.  Something to help you remember again and again what you have learned about how to really care for yourself.  These things get washed away with all the rest of life far too often, but if they are held close they can change everything, often in the most gentle and natural ways.

You can return to the practice as much as you need, and doing it daily for a week or more would be amazing.   A great time to do it is when you're falling asleep at night.  

I'm stoked for you, your lovers, and your world, that you are turning toward yourself in this way.  I would love to deepen with you in any way you feel called - you know where to find me!

With love,


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